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Posted on Mon February 01, 2010 in Personal Growth
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Can you imagine a scenario where you pay your doctor whenever you are well (because s/he has done his/her job) but you DON’T pay your doctor whenever you become unwell (because s/he failed to do his/her job of keeping you well)? According to Derek Sivers, this is a common scenario in China. Incredible huh?

The video below illustrates how stepping out from our immediate environment and away from those that share our assumptions, and into another environment amongst people who hold different views, enables us to better evaluate our own ideas and assumptions.

From http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/sex-dawn/201001/detribalize-yourself

Detribalize Yourself!
Think you know what's going on? Think again.
Published on January 29, 2010

According to Joseph Campbell, an essential first step toward wisdom involves detribalization. We're all members of tribes, which are determined by sets of shared assumptions. These tribes can involve your ethnicity, your profession, where you went to school, how much money you have, whether or not you have kids, preference for dogs vs. cats . . . To begin the process of really seeing what's going on around us, Campbell argued, we need to recognize and question these assumptions built into our perspective.

"There's a flip side to everything," the saying goes, and in a few minutes, Derek Sivers shows this is true in a few ways you might not expect.


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  •  veteran

    Marc says:

    Very interesting!

    Thanks

  •  regular

    perlman says:

    Fascinating. If only this were true in the US.

  •  newbie

    gram85 says:

    All of that can be found in the Bible and it won't get you side tracked in the wrong way. True wisdom is found by knowing God and listening to Him. It's amazing how many of these newly wise people are saying what God told us centuries ago And has been ignored by so many as all poppycock. The New Testament especially zeros in on how we are all one in this world. It still tells us to honor our own government but it doesn't tell us to call it all wrong or that someone else's government is all right.

  •  guru

    lynn says:

    @gram85

    I can see what you're saying. Yes there are lessons that largely go unheeded that are reiterated over and over again, and they aren't new lessons.

    For instance, I notice this a lot with thematic and storyline repetitions in movies. For instance, Avatar shares similarities with Dance With Wolves, Pocahontas and, my boyfriend says it's The Last Samurai with a happier ending. He also says much of our modern day movie themes and storylines can be traced back to ancient lore. Why? There are some things about us that haven't changed. We STILL need to be reminded to live in harmony with the environment and respect native inhabitants.

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